Anyone watches "Dexter"? Can the abused ever get out of the cycle of being abused and not abuse others either?

yay! someone else who watches Dexter. Have you seen the whole first season, b/c if not then you need to. It describes Rita's relationship with Dexter and gives you more background on her ex-husband. The new season hasnt started yet where I live, but I have been waiting since last season. So to answer your question, it is very hard for someone who grew up in an abusive household not to turn into an abusive person themselves. They just have to find control. For being abused, the best thing to do would be to tell someone that you really trust, or call a helpline and ask them what to do. I hope this answered your question!